You too can meet the right person.
Someone that you feel
comfortable with and who could become an important part of your life
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HINTS AND TIPS FOR YOUR
FIRST DATE
On this page we try to give some guidance on
your first meeting with your new introduction.
To make the most of your membership we
suggest the following:
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- When speaking on the telephone for the
first time, always ask questions about each other - both parties should
get a chance to speak and listen equally. |
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- During this first conversation, be open
minded and take into account that the other person may be nervous. Never
pre-judge a referral on an initial telephone conversation. |
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- For the first meeting always present
yourself smartly and dressed for the occasion. First impressions are
important. |
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- Although all our members have been vetted,
be sensible, meet in a public place where you can feel at ease and have a
chance to relax and find out about each other. Quiet pubs and quality
restaurants are an excellent choice. |
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- Allow a reasonable amount of time for that
first meeting, at least 2 hours, to give each other the chance to get
acquainted. |
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- Be positive, cheerful and light hearted and
do not assume anything. Ask questions, talk about each other's interests,
like and dislikes but do not harbour about past loves, past hurts and
mistakes. There is always time to talk about these, if necessary, at a
later time. |
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- Be yourself, give each other a chance, be
honest and considerate. You may discover that you are not sure how you
feel after just one meeting, so set another, where you can spend more time
in each other's company. |
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- Do not expect the same party to
meet
all the expenses - and be generous. |
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- Finally, enjoy yourself. If you could turn
every stranger you meet into a friend, think how wonderful your life would
become. |
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- Having met your referral, contact Preludes
again and let us know. Good communication is one of the keys to success. |
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